My Place Is the Hangout

On your birthday you have friends over and cook, and on rainy days you call a friend to your usual pancake place. Being with people gives you energy, but you'd rather be somewhere comfortable than somewhere new. So you often end up in charge of where everyone meets.

With this mix, get-togethers tend to settle into the same people in the same places. It can get hard for new people to join, and without noticing you take on all the hosting and wear yourself out. Next time, hand the choice of place to another friend and just tag along.